My favorite quote from the SXSW panel “Reaching Tastemaker Moms”:
“No one that I didn’t give birth to can call me Mommy, so don’t call me a ‘Mommy Blogger’.”
Point taken. Brands and marketers are desperately trying to woo so-called Mommy Bloggers, but many in the industry just aren’t picking up on the things that women in this demo are looking for when deciding to promote or partner with a company.
Sure Moms online are happy to write about brands and products, but how excited can they be to write about cleaning implements or diapers over and over again? And how can brands effectively connect with Moms when all they have is a product to sell?
It’s not so hard: Find your product’s unique proposition and share how it relates to a mom’s life overall, not just when they’re using it and add value through your activity.
Lindsey Maines of Rock and Roll Momma and Heather Nolte of Glama Jama did an excellent job of sharing their experiences, their likes/dislikes, and if they really care about the best way to do the laundry while they’re trying to manage a million dollar business (answer: they don’t, sorry).
They thought a great first step would be to stop trying to reach out to the Moms with sites that pull in the most readers and instead find the Moms who are the perfect fit to partner with your brand and reach out to them.
What else should we know?
Moms Online Are More Than Just Moms
There is no silver bullet to reach all Moms and there’s no quick fix for identifying influencers for your brand. Research, read blogs and comments to truly comprehend what comprises each “influencer mom’s” ecosystem. And please understand that online moms are writing about more than their home life and children- they have different interests and passions, and brands need to appeal to that.
Content Works
Moms online love video- in fact, 84% of moms view online video at least twice per week. They’re also uploading video on their own, so a natural fit would be working on UGC initiatives.
Adding Value
Online moms are technically savvy and dealing with larger issues when dealing with digital, like safety, privacy, and education – especially when dealing with their kids. Wouldn’t it be great if brands could cater to that and ask themselves “What do Moms want?” rather than ” What do I want Moms to know about my product?” Show moms that you CARE about things they need and care about, then connect with them around those causes/issues.
Partnerships
Don’t look at moms as just a face for your brand, they’re also a BRAIN that understands your brand and can deliver value. Tap that brainpower. Make a council of Moms that you work with on an ongoing basis, see what they think and pay them for their time. Paid-for product reviews are a no-no, but payment for time, brainpower and content creation is only fair. This is a business for Moms, so treat them with that kind of respect- they deserve it.
Offline Experiences
Don’t just leave interactions online. Creating an offline experience for an online Mom is a win, and will have a ripple effect for that Mom’s online community. It doesn’t just have to be an invitation to an event either; help them host a get-together with other Moms and you’ll probably see some UGC come out of it too.
My team is lucky to partner with Moms online on behalf of the brands that we work with and I found this panel extremely valuable. Would love to know your thoughts, please leave a comment below.

gaming. And though most of my friends and colleagues my age are now fully immersed in everything internet, we spent a good amount of our lives without these technologies – which were mostly introduced to us in our early/mid teens – and as a result we interact with these technologies differently than younger generations. (Example: we still occasionally use phones to actually call people.)
said it was essential to create a workflow that allows for quick approvals and answers from the appropriate people. It’s internal structuring and it’s a change that HAS to happen. How to implement? They advise to start with putting TweetDeck on the CEO’s desk with a Twitter search about the brand.
they are on. Take time to explain “why” and give them the whole story even if it is technical and/or boring. If they understand the “why,” they are much more likely to support your brand for the long haul. The Comcast rep said, “We can’t make cable free, but we can tell our customers exactly why it costs what it does.”
appear that you can print pictures where you’re tagged if they were uploaded by other people.